Debbie and Carolyn’s Story

Success is often marked by milestones, and at Ralph Scott Lifeservices, Inc., we celebrate the initial strides toward independence for those we support. Moving out can evoke a mix of fear and excitement for some, while for others, it may seem like an unattainable dream. We specialize in making these transitions possible.

We have witnessed an inspiring success story involving two sisters we support. Their aspirations were unique because they not only sought independence but also desired to remain together. Their family entrusted Ralph Scott Lifeservices, Inc. to provide the support they needed to achieve these goals.

Debbie and Carolyn posing at the 2024 StarPoint Fashion Show.

As neighbors of one of the Ralph Scott Lifeservices’ homes, the Stutts family had shown kindness and understanding while observing our staff's daily interactions with the individuals we support. In 2017, an opportunity arose that was perfect timing for both the Stutts family and Ralph Scott Lifeservices, Inc. when the family visited the Ralph Scott Lifeservices, Inc. office to apply for their daughters to live in what they affectionately call "The Scott's homes." With the parents aging, they sought a safe and stable environment for their daughters.

After nearly a year on the waitlist, two openings became available simultaneously in the same group home, fulfilling the Stutts family's wish to have the sisters placed together. Debbie, aged sixty-one, and Carolyn, aged fifty-four, embarked on their transition.

Initially, Debbie embraced the move with ease, expressing comfort and happiness. However, Carolyn required more time to adjust and felt upset about leaving their family home.

The sisters have been living in a Ralph Scott group home since December 2019, and the family has observed great progress.  Debbie, who is typically shy and prone to tears when things deviate from her expectations, has noticeably become more outgoing and appears happier than before. While she enjoys visiting her parents' home, she eagerly looks forward to returning to "her" home. Their mother, Frances, describes Debbie's enthusiasm for returning to the group home as akin to going to a party, highlighting her excitement and comfort in her new living environment.

The sisters, known affectionately as "the girls" by the Stutts family, have always had a deep love for activities like gardening, yard work, coloring, puzzles, housework, watching television, and listening to music. They grew up participating in tasks such as mowing the yard, pulling weeds, tending their garden, and even helping in the family's tobacco fields. Inside their home, Carolyn had her own vacuum, which was off-limits to anyone else, and she took pride in setting the table.

Their enthusiasm for staying active and pursuing their interests has greatly facilitated their transition to living away from their family. Carolyn has embraced her role as a helper, eagerly putting groceries away and frequently bringing gifts back for her friends at the house. While they may sometimes assert their rights by saying, "We have rights and don’t have to work if we don’t want to," they always willingly assist their parents when needed.

The Morene sisters are cherished by their staff and housemates alike and have flourished remarkably in the time they have been with us.